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Lohen Parchment: Philadelphia’s queer nightlife is about more than a night out.

Kimberlei Davis: For many performers and audience members, these spaces are places to create, earn money, build community, and fully be themselves. My co-host, Ashley Whiteside, takes us inside Whispers Cabaret, a recurring burlesque. And poll show to find out what makes events like these so special.

Whisper: Ready for our next performer on a Saturday night inside the Velvet Whip, the room is loud, intimate, and pretty clear about its rules. Do you guys know how burlesque performances work? Do you guys know what you do when you see something you like? Somebody said I throw money. So when you see something you like, you throw money, you cheer, you do all that.

Ashley Whiteside: Whispers Cabaret mixes pole and modern burlesque with everything from aerial acts to sideshow performers and singers. Producer and pole performer Whisper started the show in part. Because he wasn’t finding many opportunities for himself in Philly.

Whisper: Being a male pole dancer here in the Philly scene, there’s not many opportunities in terms of stripping, pole dancing, things like that. So I wanted to create something for me, but also have something that I can bring my friends onto because I have a lot of talented friends, and there were also people that I’ve met. Through the burlesque and strip scene that I didn’t know that well, but I’m like, they’re talented.

I would love to see them in something recurring that they can really show their talents.

Ashley Whiteside: And for cast member desire, what happens here goes beyond the performance.

Desire: It’s super important to have third spaces as an adult, right? I feel like we always have our home life and then we have our work life. Where do we put ourselves in between that? And I think pole and performance for me has been that space that has just been a place I can be happy, joyful, fearful, learn so much about myself, express my sensuality.

Whisper: Is everyone ready for our next performer? Let’s give a round of applause. To my girl, the one and only Jordan Monroe.

Ashley Whiteside: That freedom is something the audience notices too. Mike and Melissa were seeing Whispers Cabaret for the first time.

Mike: I don’t think I’ve seen people move like that, that look like real people.

Melissa: Real body, real love, I love it.

Ashley Whiteside: Whispers Cabaret is growing, but across Philly, queer nightlife spaces are still fighting to hold onto their place in the city. This summer, a newly formed group filed a lawsuit against Bar X on Carmack Street, asking a judge to shut the bar down. As a public nuisance. Bar X has been open for about a decade and serves a largely black LGBT clientele. Owner Tony Sang disputes the allegations in the lawsuit and has questioned why his bar is being singled out on a block with several nightlife venues.

The fight comes after the closure of other spaces that have become important gathering places for black and brown queer people in the neighborhood. And that raises a bigger question about what gets lost when these spaces disappear. Because for the people who build their lives, art, and community around nightlife, A venue is rarely just a venue. Whisper says there are already limited places where some performers can work safely and actually get paid.

Whisper: I feel like the creative scene would be missing a lot, for one, from an entertainment standpoint, but also like there’s not a lot of places for some performers to safely perform. I feel like just having these spaces is great because it offers an outlet, but also a means of income for people who want to have their creative desires fulfilled.

Ashley Whiteside: Here, pleasure is entertainment, but it’s also work, community, and a place for people to make something of their own. Whisper says he wants an opportunity to keep expanding.

Whisper: I just want things to keep going well. I want my dancers to flourish. I want them to have other opportunities. And I just want things to continue to grow.

Ashley Whiteside: For Block by Block, I’m Ashley Whiteside.

Whisper: DJ Honeyworld on the one that you’re going to be just looking for.

This story was broadcast as part of October 7, 2026 (Block by Block).